Mothers who have overcome Emetophobia

Here at Emetophobia-free, we have hundreds of testimonial reviews, both written and recorded testimonies, left by people who have recovered from emetophobia after completing our programme. Here, we celebrate the achievements of those mothers who have successfully beaten their emetophobia and gone on to enjoy happy, thriving lives. You can see a small selection of these video reviews below, each one a personal, honest account of the journey to being emetophobia-free.

The Challenges of being a Mother with Emetophobia

Given that a majority percentage of emetophobes are female (at least 85% according to research), it is understandable that the issue of children often crops up when living with emetophobia. As part of an emetophobe’s general proclivity towards safety-seeking behaviours (more on that later), it is accepted that they tend to view children as a significant threat to their wellbeing.

Children, with their propensity to contract and pass on unpleasant bugs/illnesses and their cavalier approach towards hygiene, can often quickly become something that an emetophobe will seek to avoid. In extreme cases, there are emetophobes out there who have avoided having children altogether rather than face the risk of coming into contact with vomit.

However, for those women with emetophobia who DO have children, the prospect of the significant likelihood that the cherub will one day return from school with a sickness can be all-consuming.

Symptoms such as these…

  • Excessive worry
  • Anxiety and Panic Attacks
  • OCD behaviours (constant checking)
  • Low self-esteem
  • Social Anxiety
  • Eating difficulties (which can lead to disorders)
  • Persistent feelings of nausea
  • Lacking confidence

can develop into…

  • Avoiding spending time near children
  • Trouble sleeping
  • Avoiding car journeys/public transport
  • Self-harm
  • Feeling suicidal
  • Social withdrawal
  • Avoidance of food/objects
  • Avoidance of social gatherings

The Guilt of Mothers with Emetophobia

One of the most overriding emotions for emetophobic mothers who tend to distance themselves from their children as an avoidance behaviour, is guilt. Feeling drawn to stay away from the potential risk of coming into close contact with children, even their own, can bring about some complex responses and emotions.

There are those who, whilst feeling that they have little to no choice in the matter, will feel that they are less of a woman or less of a mother as a result. This self-beration can then tend to develop into poor self-esteem and feelings of not being worthy, which then lead to further beration. This cycle of behaviour is extremely unhelpful.

Despite knowing logically that the sheer intensity of their fear/phobia is driving them to perform such avoidance tactics, they will still regularly beat themselves up and see themselves as a failure.

However, it is often this battle between emetophobic thoughts and behaviours and the mothering instincts that can spur mothers with emetophobia into taking decisive action and getting in touch with us. They frequently report that they want to beat their phobia because (a) they want to be able to throw themselves into motherhood and all of its joys for the sake of their children and (b) they are desperately keen not to pass the phobia onto their children.

mother who has overcome emetophobia with her children

Emetophobia and Recovery

Nearly 28,000 people worldwide have overcome Emetophobia using our unique programme, many of them mothers. Based on clinical experience, scientific research and applied psychology, we will explain how your emetophobia was created, and how you can – safely and carefully – get rid of it completely.

Although Emetophobia is a serious psychological illness, you should not feel disheartened. Over the past 30 years, we have successfully helped thousands upon thousands of sufferers – of all ages, from all walks of life and from all over the world – to completely overcome their phobia and take back control of their mental health.

We’ve created an easy-to-follow, 6-8-week, step-by-step programme that anyone can go through to overcome emetophobia completely and permanently.

The programme manual + support videos are inexpensive, easy to access and are inspiring and empowering from the very start.

From the podcast

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